As much as I want to enjoy the beautiful colours of fall, but this season is come to an end and winter is finally here!
I am thankful that I live in a country that will give
me an opportunity to experience four different seasons in life. A season of change.
It’s been said that if there is anything certain in
life, it is change. Many people don’t like that. I am not a winter person, I love to see snowfall but the
freezing cold is just too much for me. Season is inevitable, it will come
whether we like it or not. It will find it’s way to our door. We cannot change
that, but we can change our mind, our perspective, our points of view. If we
could design our own lives the way we want it?, they would be filled with all the beautiful things we want. Life,
however, doesn’t work that way. Life is about growth and progression, it is not
stagnant. Flowers bloom and fade, seeds planted and grow. We must experience
change. Life is change. Change for the better all brings something good and
things to look forward to.
Let’s be real. Change is not easy and one of the
reasons why we have a difficult time dealing with it is the emotional factor
that are attach with it. Our
foster children function more if they follow their routines, they are good at
it. They know what to do and what to expect. Everything flow smoothly if they
stay on their routines. But if routine change, they tend to get overwhelm,
confused, anxious. Change brings emotional changes.
When there is change, our emotion follows. There is fear, discouragement, anxiety, insecurity, anger, confusion,
anticipation, inhibited, disappointment,
concern, some get depressed, avoidance and excitement and the list goes
on. We are feeling these things because it takes us out of our comfort zones,
exposing some degree of our vulnerability. That’s why most people resist
change.
We have moments of change in our life over the years and until
now, some are good and some are challenges that needs to be fought with might,
where our faith were shaken. Some are things I am not ready to face but I have
to. When change happens,
we have options. We can live with it, adapt it or learn and grow from it. Some things we have to let go, and some things we have to embrace. For
change is opportunity driven. It is a special invitation to personal and
spiritual empowerment and growth.
This season is a time to breath and relax to His
promises. I can never alter God’s promises, just like season is inevitable. It will
come through ups ad downs of your life. Instead of holding on to your “ own
plans”, hold on His promises. Reset your goals and not worry about the lost
time in the past and things that you cannot change but to make the best of the
moment. From here, there is no looking back. Shake off the fog on your way and
refocus for great things to come.
Embrace change and live abundantly. Enjoy every
season of life. May our journey be
blessed in all that we strive to accomplish.
In II Cor. 5:17
“Therefore, if any man be in Christ, he is a new creature; old things are
passed away; Behold, all things are become new.
Winter! Years ago with my mom during her visit with us.
Have a great day!
2 comments:
Love reading your blog Ate Jane. I agree, change is really hard but they are there to make us who we are. I agree with you, life is growth and progression, and the manifestation of that is change. Like the season, change is always certain, the only uncertainty is our how we approach it and our attitude towards it. I have learned to trust upon our Lord. As the song says "He knows my name". Thanks for sharing. I'm blessed!
Just stopped by here today. First time in a long time and this was just what I needed. I don't like much change especially that which is out of my control. But it's part of life.
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